Wednesday, February 6, 2019

Welcome to St. Louis!!!

Where did the time go?!?  I blinked and now we are in St. Louis and Bailey is currently in the operating room where Dr. Park is performing a miracle!  We (my hubby and I) are anxiously awaiting another update from the O.R.  I'm still a bag of nerves, but I know she is in the best hands!!

Here's a look at the last 3 weeks...

Bailey has been working VERY hard with Jen, her therapist at Shriner's hospital, 2x per week for the last 6 weeks to get strong enough for surgery.  Although it was hard work, Jen always found a way to make it fun!


We had to buy a new stroller for Bailey to roll around in after surgery and, after a little more work than it should have been, we got it, and it works perfectly.  We were happy to learn that the stroller was also Barbie approved... :) Bailey was also SO excited when we bought her her very own suitcase, and of course, she chose Paw Patrol, with a Frozen backpack...

 Here we are, packing for the trip to the airport and waiting to board.

And we are ready to go...








And, after an exciting plane ride, we arrived in COLD St. Louis.




















 She was really excited to be at the hotel, and get ready to meet Dr. Park.  She had great dreams!

She LOVES hotels!!
On our way to meet Dr. Park



Sweet dreams beautiful girl!!
And we finally meet the notorious 'Sir Dr. Park'!! And our new adventure begins...
Bailey with Dr. Park








Tuesday, January 8, 2019

3 weeks to surgery...

WOW!  Where has the time gone?!?  Christmas and New Year's have come and gone and we are a little less than 3 weeks away from surgery day, and we are both excited and nervous!!  Here is an update of how things are going...

The beginning of December, we were invited by Shriner's Hospital (where Bailey receives therapy and orthopedic services) to participate in the Santa Express, which involved meeting at Shriner's Hospital bright and early on a Saturday morning, taking a chartered bus to the airport, where we boarded a plane headed for the North Pole and Santa's workshop.  We taxied around the airport for a while, all the while singing Christmas carols and having a great time with the amazing team from Delta Airlines (one of the sponsors of the event), until we reached our final destination, which was a Delta hanger which had been transformed into Santa's Workshop.  To say it was amazing would be a gross understatement!!  It was UNBELIEVABLE!!  There were SO many different stations and hundreds of amazing volunteers that made this day absolutely magical!  Here are a few of the pictures...







And just like that, Christmas was here.  This Christmas, we were reminded just how amazing our friends and family are, and how truly blessed we are for the tribe that we are a part of.  SO many amazing angels have granted so many blessings for our family, and we are truly grateful for every one!!  Here is a picture of our Christmas tree (that was decorated exclusively by the littles) and adorable Bailey with Santa.




Now that the holdays are over, we are anxiously getting things ready for our departure to St. Louis.  We are less than 3 weeks away and headlong into weaning her off of the meds that have made our lives tolerable (we didn't sleep for more than a few hours at a time for almost 2 years before she was prescribed Baclofen to help slow the spasms so she could sleep) and to say it's rough would be an understatement.  You don't realize how amazing sleep is until you don't get it...this is going to be a rough few weeks.  Honestly, I've been more stressed about this piece of the process than any other, including the surgery itself.  Here's to hoping that the alternate medicine they gave us to help her in this time works as it's intended and we can get some sleep, otherwise we will be some really ornery parents going to St. Louis.  :)  Sweet Bailey is really going to miss her friends at school and daycare while she is recuperating from surgery, so we are trying to schedule some good play dates/etc.  with her little friends between now and the end of the month to hopefully give her some great memories while she is unable to do a lot.

We will probably post one more update (and at least one more plea for the GoFundMe as we are having to buy things for the trip and Bailey and the money is going WAY quicker than it came in) before we leave and I will try to post some stuff at least every other day while we are in St. Louis.  This is a super exciting time and we want to make sure to capture all of the magic to be able to show Miss Bailey later to see how far she will have come!

Thank you for checking in and supporting us in our incredible journey! 



Tuesday, December 11, 2018

Bailey's Television debut



Our local news station, KSL Channel 5, did a story in little Miss Bailey and it turned out great!!  There was SO much great information and even a cameo by the amazing neurosurgeon that will be doing the surgery!  We’re so excited to spread the word on this amazing surgery and are anxious for January 29th to get here! Happy Holidays to all!!!!

https://ksltv.com/404590/innovative-surgery-change-utah-girls-life/




Monday, November 26, 2018

Our Brave Bailey 
#BaileyCPWarrior 
This is the story of our brave little 4 year old daughter, Bailey, who has cerebral palsy.  Bailey is kind, intelligent, and fiercely independent.  Even though her mobility is limited by a walker, she is determined to do everything that everyone else can do, no matter what.  Bailey dreams of doing all of the fun things that peers her age are doing, such as climbing on the monkey bars, swinging, rolling down a grassy hill, riding a bike, sitting with her legs crossed in front of her, exercising, and most of all…dancing.  This desire has led us to reach out to a neurosurgeon in St. Louis, MO who performs a life- altering surgery called Selective Dorsal Rhizotomy (SDR).  After doing loads of research, and speaking to parents who have had this surgery on their children, we have decided that this may be the best chance for Bailey, to help her combat some of the painful, lifelong impairments caused by this condition.  Dr. Park has predicted that, after this surgery, Bailey should be able to walk independently, across all environments which would be a dream come true!!

 A fighter is born

Bailey was born on May 26, 2014 at 27 weeks gestation, weighing in at 2 lbs. 2.5 oz. and spent 2 months in the NICU.  When Bailey was 1 month old, we were informed that she had developed a bleed in her brain (diagnosed as Periventricular Leukomalacia or PVL).  She continued to grow and develop but was pretty late in meeting some of her milestones (rolling over, scooting, crawling, etc.).  Just after her 1st birthday, she was diagnosed with Spastic Diplegic Cerebral Palsy. 

Bailey-1 day old
First kiss from mama


Bailey-1 month old


















 

Our family-July 2014


 
The Diagnosis
Cerebral Palsy is a neurological condition that permanently affects muscle control and coordination.  Spastic diplegia affects the legs and arms, making them stiff and contracted (spastic), although in Bailey’s case, her legs are much more affected than her arms.  At just past 2, she got her first reverse walker, and has been on the go ever since. 

With CP, comes many challenges, including an endless battle with spasticity (tightness, constant muscle spasms in her legs), making everyday things, such as walking, sitting up independently, or even sleeping very difficult.  Through medications, botox injections, and countless hours of physical therapy, she can now go to preschool and experience the world with the use of her walker.

Bailey's 1st birthday




 Enter Dr. Park—the life-changing operation
I was introduced to the St. Louis Children’s Hospital Selective Dorsal Rhizotomy group through a fellow CP mama on Facebook.  It was through this group that I found a kinship with a ton of parents that are dealing with the same challenges that we have been dealing with, and found a way to try and improve their child’s situation through Selective Dorsal Rhizotomy or SDR.

SDR is a procedure that treats muscle spasticity by cutting the nerve rootlets in the spinal cord that are sending abnormal signals to the muscles.  By reducing the spasticity, the surgery can help improve walking patterns, help with potty training (which in children with CP can take as long as 5-6 yrs), and can help improve range of motion and functional mobility.  The leading neurosurgeon that performs this surgery is Dr. T.S. Park at St. Louis Children’s Hospital.  Dr. Park has performed thousands of these surgeries and has trained many neurosurgeons on his techniques for a less invasive surgery than has been offered in the past.  Although there are risks to such an involved and invasive surgery, the long term benefits that it can provide are definitely worth the journey. 


Here is where you come in…
A major, life-changing surgery like SDR comes with a large price tag.  The overall expected cost of this surgery (and braces/equipment is just over $46,000, which is WAY out of our budget.  We are expecting our insurance to pick up some of this, but since it is out of state, we don’t really know how much they will cover.  This is where we need your help!  As parents, we want to provide our children with as many possibilities and opportunities for success as possible, and this is our way of doing that for Bailey.  We want her to be able to live a life where she doesn’t have to rely on dangerous pharmaceuticals to get through the day, or have to worry about the deterioration of muscles as she gets older, and the pain this deterioration will cause.   

For more information about SDR, please refer to the St. Louis Children’s Hospital website ( http://www.stlouischildrens.org/our-services/center-cerebral-palsy-spasticity/about-selective-dorsal-rhizotomy-sdr), which explains what Dr. T.S. Park does for these amazing kids.31461154_153385442669828_r.jpeg